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Thursday, April 10, 2008

If you know me well enough you would know I am a person who dislikes confrontation (as in I having to confront others) Today I just did that and questioned someone's life "doctrine"

I really wonder why would people greed over what's not theirs? I mean, what's yours will be yours and by taking what's not yours, you would have to return back eventually, sometimes doubled of what you had taken. I remembered a Chinese proverbs that seems to go like this "taking without asking is the same as stealing" Even if the stuff are meant for you but without anyone telling you it's yours and took it is similar to stealing - a crime. There I was, not feeling angry but wanting to bring some disciplinary (right mentality) Oh well I failed terribly and oh boy did this person "hated" me; I would see it in the eyes. Honestly I am not bothered by it. It doesn't matter to me, anymore

Used to get angry and upset to the point where I was so angry that I utter not a word. Now is pure disappointment, I would never understand why some people lives' is all about getting instead of giving. No I don't mean just materialism. It can be anything. A friend once said this "I am sorry that I'm not there when you needed one" and my reply to her "then be there the next time when others need you" Sometimes we wants our friends to be there when we are down or needed help. But when they are in trouble, you are no where to be found. Sound familiar yea?

I remembered I wrote something when I was 13 in one of my school diary. It has got to do with getting and giving. It goes like this "everyone loves gifts... but if everyone have the mentality to just receive, how then, would one receive without anyone start giving?"

Love is about giving. Selfishness is about taking. Today you may have taken something from someone but eventually you would lose much more valuable things in life which money nor anything can buys, such as, Relationship and Trust

"love is found in the things given up rather than in the things that we have kept" ~Rich Mullins

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