Tuesday, November 13, 2007
VALUABLE or VULNERABLE??Just what should a person do if ever he had such encounter when it got to do with value? hmm..Calvin and Kelvin were good friends. They talked, laught, joked almost anything and everything under the sun. In their heart, they knew each other and they were closed friends. They value each other highly. Years later, due to some bad experiences they faced, the friendship drafted far apart. Though they hardly talk but somehow they wished things could turn around good for them again. Few months passed and they met at a local pub with some other friends too. Kelvin made a statement that some how makes Calvin bit puzzled. Kelvin said this to one of the friend, "...you are the closest to me now... yea.. almost the closest to me right now" Calvin felt a little disappointed then, knowing someone had 'replaced' him but blame no one but himself to allow 'void' to come into the friendship. Morever, they hardly spend quality time now.. some how Calvin learnt a lesson, people's value changes faster than weather.. how then, should Calvin do to 'gain' back his friend again or is it too late?? by spenting more time with someone indeed will strengthen bonds huh??BUT..seng has always been the 'apple' in chan's eyes for many years. One day, seng decided to leave chan for some unknown reason. jia knew about the reason but because of her love for chan, jia kept it to herself and endlessly showering love towards chan. Some how, chan don't really appreciate it as in chan's heart, there's only seng in it. For many years, jia kept sowing but did not reap a good harvest at all. All this while, jia was the one who stayed by chan's side. Sometimes jia wonder " should I continue to 'win' favor from chan, knowing that chan will only favour seng? all the sowing, is it worthwhile? No matter what I do, chan's heart will always be at seng's side no matter what seng did, isn't it?" replaced and irreplacabled.. time.. don't seem to be the solution for situation B but is part of the cause for situation A. Somehow by spenting time with someone.. yes, it does help to build bonds yet not really happening in situation B yea? so complicated!! =\ well one may not know all the solution but surely if one is willing to lower themself in situation x, talk and most importantly, hand it up to His hands, I believe thing will work out good
an-gel wished upon the stars at 12:08 PM
