Monday, October 08, 2007
eh been 'learning' discovering new things. hmm maybe I should say re-learnt what was taught before
one thing that may sadden people is this, often heard it from drama show "I'm here right before your eyes yet you can't see me" or even this "i don't seem to know this person who's standing in-front of me, though we knew each other for years - familiar stranger"
I went through it before. Because there's lack of communication, the whole relationship breaks down. You won't know what happened or feel the concern of the other party, perhaps only when mishap occurred but won't it be too late? A Gd eg is my neighbour. Hardly talk much, the next moment, he's wheel-bounded.
hmm i think in any relationship, friendship etc or even parenthood, communication is extremely important. Whether you will have a hot crispy relationship like apple pie or cool cold one like dry ices that can bites to your skin lies in that key. Those relationships that we hold on to, isn't it all about creating moments? Moments need closeness and proximity to begin with. Thank God for things like msn, sms, emails - they are good tools to enhance the process (especially when one is oversea), yet they can't be the main dish; they can only be complement along the main one. the main dish is one-on-one meet ups (even meeting up in small grp). hee foodie for thought yeahz..
an-gel wished upon the stars at 12:33 PM
